Nu ga ik deze ruimte toch even gebruiken als een aantekeningen boekje 
Van Exim (de mailserver) zijn er weinig duidelijke handleidingen beschikbaar waar alles in goed overzicht staat, heb er eentje gevonden op http://ccfaq.valar.co.uk/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=158, maar daar ontbreekt dan de -bp optie weer, omdat soms mailq ook wel zou werken…
Dus compleet is het dan:
Viewing mail queue:
exim -bp
Adding a recipient to a message:
exim -Mar message_id email@domain.dom
will add email@domain.dom as a recipient of the message and send a copy to that address.
There is no way to actually delete a recipient, but Exim can be told to pretend that delivery for a recipient has been completed. To mark one of the intended recipients as delivered:
exim -Mmd message_id email@domain.dom
will mark the address email@domain.dom as delivered and stop delivery attempts to that address, whereas:
exim -Mmad message_id
will mark all recipients as delivered.
These commands are handy if you need to divert a piece of mail to one or more new recipients. The safest way to do this is:
Freeze the message:
exim -Mf message_id
Use the -Mmad or -Mmd switched to mark all or individual recipients as delivered.
Use the -Mar switches to add as many new recipients as needed.
Thaw the message:
exim -Mt message_id
which will then attempt delivery on the next queue run, or force delivery now:
exim -M message_id
You can also edit the body of the message:
exim -Meb message_id
This runs vi on a copy of the spool file with a lock. No delivery attempts are made while the file is locked. There a few caveats on this and you should look up more info on it before you attempt it.
Summary of queue runner commands:
-M : Force delivery
-Mar : Add recipient
-Meb : Edit message body
-Mes : Edit sender
-Mf : Freeze message
-Mg : Give up (and bounce message)
-Mmad : Mark all recipients as delivered
-Mmd : Mark recipient as delivered
-Mrm : Remove message (no bounce)
-Mt : Thaw message
-Mvb : View message body
-Mvh : View message header
-Mvl : View message log
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